Thursday, May 29, 2025
24 Gotham Street
Wednesday, May 21, 2025
Remembering Asa Partridge’s Young Lady’s School in Sag Harbor
Long gone are the days of ladies’ schools—dedicated institutions where women and girls were taught everything from etiquette and elocution to secretarial skills and domestic management. These schools served as vital stepping stones for women seeking refinement, education, and social opportunity in eras when formal schooling options for females were scarce.
In 1791, one of Sag Harbor’s earliest newspapers, Frothingham’s Long Island Journal, featured an advertisement for a “young lady’s school” opened by Asa Partridge in what was then spelled “Sagg-Harbour.” This marked the founding of the first private school in Sag Harbor—a significant milestone in the village’s educational history.
Among the skills taught was elocution, the art of clear and expressive speech, a valuable skill for young women of the time, often tied to social mobility and personal poise.
I often wonder where the hall that housed Asa Partridge’s school once stood. If you have any insight into its location—or better yet, a current photo of the property—I’d love to know!
By 1805, the school had come under the direction of a Mr. Moody, though Asa Partridge continued to serve as a trustee alongside four other men, suggesting he maintained an active role in its operations.
Records indicate that Asa owned land in what was referred to as the "Common" area of Sag Harbor. In 1818, he expanded his lot—located north of the property of Pelletiah Fordham and along what was then known simply as the “highway,” possibly Main Street—by purchasing 14 additional feet of frontage for $29.51.
It’s believed that this site later became home to the Meyer & Sons store, which stood on the property as of 1924. This connection offers a fascinating glimpse into the layered history of Sag Harbor’s built environment.
By 1850, Asa Partridge—then retired—owned property valued at $10,000, equivalent to roughly $400,000 today. Between 1849 and 1851, his land was gradually sold off to Sheriff David R. Rose, Charles Douglas, and E.M. Cooper.
Tuesday, May 20, 2025
Diners
What comes to mind when you think about a diner? Eggs? Waffles? A 1950's malt milkshake shared by two? I associate diner history with the latter, however I recently learned that the diner concept actually dates back to 1872 when a man in Providence, Rhode Island decided to bring coffee and breakfast treats (and pie!) to workers via his horse and wagon.
So what was the first diner on Long Island? Rumor has it that it is the Colonial Diner in East Meadow. The earliest reference I found on the diner only dated back to 1968, however it is possible they didn't advertise in the papers. The Oceanside Diner (my hometown!) apparently opened about 1940 and the National Diner in Hempstead was opened by 1941. I really thought I would find a diner older than the 1940's though. Perhaps I am romanticizing the idea as I now am craving a chocolate egg cream. mmmmm.
The National Diner was located next to the fire department and stood at the corner of Jackson and Main St. These buildings no longer exist and definitely were part of a much more charming Hempstead. As you drive through Hempstead today it can be difficult to imagine this town and village as a much more green tapestry with a quaint town square surrounded by farmed land. Hempstead actually dates back to the mid 17th century. Many of its original proprietors left soon after due to the English and Dutch conflict of 1653.